Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Week 5 – Spiritual Growth Development Part III

Celebration of Discipline Bible Study
Prepared by: Rev. Willetta Ar-Rahmaan
Week 5 – Spiritual Growth Development Part III


Last week we concluded the discussion of the baby/infant stage of spiritual growth. This week we will discuss the 2nd stage of spiritual growth, a toddler. The toddler stage of human development is the stage of eating solid food, trying to be independent, testing the boundaries, and having temper tantrums. This is the stage of discernment when a toddler learns to distinguish good and bad by touching, they mimic the actions of others, form words, constantly hearing the word ‘NO’ and often talk in full sentences. When we view the toddler stage in spiritual growth the discernment comes from the wisdom and knowledge of the Holy Spirit. According to the Old Testament (OT), “the Hebrews used several words to describe stages of a child’s growth. A very young child was called a “suckling,” which meant that he was still nursing. Then he was referred to as a “weaned one”; this change was an important milestone in a child’s life. When the child matured a bit more, the Hebrews said he was a “toddler.”

As we view our spiritual growth in the toddler stage we find ourselves being less dependent on others. We are becoming proactive in our devotion and being corrected and guided by the Holy Spirit. We are starting to understand and comprehend the meaning of Christ’s sacrifice on the Cross and using church lingo. Although we are still young in our spiritual journey we must be careful of any type of doctrine. When we are not fully grounded or rooted we can be easily led astray in our thinking, therefore we can use Matthew 13:4-6 to interpret this stage and the baby/infant stage. When we want to quickly grow up in our faith we are like these seeds.

When we are starting out on this Christian Journey, we are shallow in our thinking and talking. We do not possess all the tools necessary for spiritual growth. Our knowledge is an inch deep. This is why in verse 19-21 Jesus explains the aforementioned text. As a toddler in the faith we will hear many things, we will hear about tradition, we will hear about order and we will hear about positions but we must learn to discern what we hear and be doers of righteous. As we know this is the stage of let me do it by myself. When we find ourselves as unplanted seeds on this journey we may need to take a step backwards to focus on why we really confessed and committed our lives to Christ. Toddlers of the faith can be led away by smooth talk, the promise of wealth and riches or given “speckled green meat” as Dr. Katie Cannon said in a lecture some years ago. When our discernment hasn’t reached the maturity level we are not able to stand firm and combat the forces of evil. We find ourselves in a battle without armor. We are so eager to show people what we’ve learned so we talk to be heard and do things so others can see us because we are growing in our faith. When we grow and mature it is seen in our actions, our conversations and our lifestyle.

This is our foundational stage where we start the process of listening to God and allowing God to transform our minds and hearts. At this stage we must be careful not to get caught up with messy people or messy situations. When we start mimicking those who have a partial relationship with God we tend to follow them instead of the guidance of the Holy Spirit (Luke 6:49). When our spiritual development foundation is laid properly we are able to stand. As I mentioned the first year is very critical but it’s the first 5 to 7 years that where the word will be rooted in you. Our relationship with God is what we make of it. Take the time to know God for yourself, read and study your Bible to become familiar with the Word so it can have an impact on your life and those around you.

Going Deeper:
1. How deeply rooted in the word of God are you? Can others persuade you to do things I use to do?
2. Do you believe there are some cracks in your spiritual foundational development? If so, where do you think they came from?
3. What causes us to seek independence from God?




Next week we will look at the Stage of a Child/Teenager

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Week 4-Spiritual Growth Development II

Celebration of Discipline Bible Study
Prepared by: Rev. Willetta Ar-Rahmaan
Week 4-Spiritual Growth Development II

Last week lesson we compared the physical development of a baby/infant to the spiritual development of a baby/infant in Christ. This week I struggle to write because I wanted to move forward with the next level but God is holding me to the baby/infant stage just a little while longer. The more I reflect on this stage of spiritual development I look back on my own spiritual walk and glean from that first year of nurturing, support and assurance. There were many days I doubted this was for me because I converted from Islam to Christianity. I witness first hard how wicked people could be to leaders, friends and others. I thought to myself I could have stayed a non practicing Muslim if this is what Christians act like this outside of Sunday morning. We can talk about this until Jesus comes back so let us move on with the rest of a babe in Christ.

If we shame the devil and tell the truth, the first year is always a struggle and the period of adjustment. If you don’t believe me think about when the newborn baby comes home, the first year of marriage, the first year of divorce, the first year in college, the first year in a new job or in a new city. It’s not easy but we learn along the way. Just as a baby learns how to crawl and walk we do the same as new Christians.

As a new Christian there was parts of worship, the language and traditions I just didn’t understand. The spiritual milk for a babe in Christ is more than just reading the Bible, it’s being taught with genuine love, being nurtured and reassured of the decision we made. The first year of our spiritual growth is to prepare us for the journey. The spiritual milk consists of getting to know your bible, learning simple prayers, starting a personal devotional period, understanding worship and the church lingo: terminology used (i.e. Salvation, Restoration, Holy Spirit/Holy Ghost, Ordinances, Tithing, Sacraments, Baptism, Communion, slain in the spirit, speaking in tongues and etc). As we learn the first year we need to be surrounded by people who will not only pray for us but pray with us. So many times in the first year we feel abandon because we are new to the faith, new to the community and new to the church. Many churches have ministries for the first year Christian, the babe in Christ or reborn Christian. These types of ministries are very vital for the first year. Many churches and Christian often suffer from “spiritual amnesia” according to Dr. Joel Gregory. We forget what it is like to be new in Christ and we just assume everyone grew up in the church. When we encounter new Christians they will be zealous, on fire and overly excited about this journey. To all the newcomers to Christ take your time to grow but remember God can speed the growing process like he did Paul (Acts 9:1-22), because Paul already had a foundation and a relationship with God.


Going Deeper:
1. Do you remember your first year as a Christian? Did you receive sufficient assurance? Did this make an impact as you began your journey?
2. Do you encounter non-church people on a regular basis? What type of language do you use when talking to them?
3. What are some things you needed more help as a babe in Christ? How can you improve the experience of new Christians in your church?

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Week 3 – Spiritual Growth Development

Celebration of Discipline Bible Study
Prepared by: Rev. Willetta Ar-Rahmaan
Click here to download: Week 3 – Spiritual Growth Development


For the past two weeks we talked about Spiritual Discipline and how they transform us from the inside. We also recognize that if we treat the disciplines as laws instead of a gift from God we have set ourselves up for failure and legalism. Now that we have a better understanding of the disciplines, let us look at the stages involved in spiritual growth development. This is a process and there are no shortcuts in spiritual growth.

There are five stages in our spiritual growth development: Infant/Baby, Toddler, Child, Young Adult and Adult. As we noticed each of these stages can be compared to the stages of human development. Over the next few weeks we will cover these stages and compare them to the human development at each stage. As we know the first year of growth is very critical. This is the stage of nurturing, assurance and gentleness. During the first year of a baby life their nourishment comes from milk either the mother’s milk or formula. When a newborn baby is brought home from the hospital the baby will sleep, get acclimated to the sounds and motions outside of the womb and rely on a parent to provide the nourishment of milk. Milk is the basic necessity for an infant during the first year of growth. According to Wikipedia, “Breastfeeding promotes health, helps to prevent disease, and reduces health care and feeding costs”.

Therefore, when we look at the first year of spiritual development we notice a similar pattern. When one is born again, they need the same nurturing, assurance, gentleness and so on. The difference between a newborn baby and a born again Christian is the age factor. When we are newborns of the spirit we are immature spiritually, but physically walking, talking and have our own presuppositions in life because we have heard and seen a lot. We have knowledge of God but not a deep knowledge. The spiritual baby as Dr. Cleophus LaRue stated during a revival one time, “can be gray haired babies”. This is an indication that we have the ability to accept Christ during any age in life and whatever the age we are still babies in the beginning.

As a baby needs milk to grow, as born again Christians we need the word of God and a mature Christian to help guide us. The key word is to guide us not make us like them but give us the tools necessary for the growth. When one accept Christ we want to be sure we made the right decision and if there is any doubt during the first year this is when many will walk away.

Let us look at a few scriptures as it relates to the nourishment of a new Christian.

1 Peter 2:2 - Rid yourselves, therefore, of all malice, and all guile, insincerity, envy, and all slander. 2 Like newborn infants, long for the pure, spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow into salvation— 3 if indeed you have tasted that the Lord is good.

1 Corinthians 3:1-3 And so, brothers and sisters,a I could not speak to you as spiritual people, but rather as people of the flesh, as infants in Christ. 2 I fed you with milk, not solid food, for you were not ready for solid food. Even now you are still not ready, 3 for you are still of the flesh. For as long as there is jealousy and quarreling among you, are you not of the flesh, and behaving according to human inclinations?

Hebrews 5:12-14 - For though by this time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to teach you again the basic elements of the oracles of God. You need milk, not solid food; 13 for everyone who lives on milk, being still an infant, is unskilled in the word of righteousness. 14 But solid food is for the mature, for those whose faculties have been trained by practice to distinguish good from evil.


As you read each of these scriptures, think back to the time when you first accepted Christ. Was it hard for you to grasp what was being taught to you? Was the word being force-fed to you? Where you taught as a mature Christian knowing you lacked the foundation?

Going Deeper:

1. How would you handle your first church conference as a new Christian with allegations and insults being hurled at each other?
2. Are there times you feel like an infant/baby on this journey?
3. Why is it hard to move from the baby stage and grow as a child of God?


Additional lesson
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Monday, June 14, 2010

Don't Push Away from this Table


Reconciliation United Methodist Church June 14, 2010
a Monday Meditation by Pastor Baker
Don't Push Away from this Table

Read John 6:51-58
 
Some call them the "hard sayings of Jesus;" communionthose difficult teachings of Jesus in the Gospels, particularly those that caused offense and lead many to turn away from Jesus, forsaking their initial enthusiasm for the wandering Rabbi from Nazareth. It is an unsettling, familiar biblical theme. Jesus' words can save and heal - but often enough, they can also shock and offend.
 
John chapter six is a case in point. Jesus give us his flesh to eat? Jesus give us his blood to drink?If such words were merely metaphorical, they still seem inappropriately graphic. If Jesus was being literal, such speech was an offense against Jewish law and Torah teaching. Either way, Jesus' words were hard to swallow: When many of his disciples heard it, they said, 'This teaching is difficult; who can accept it? ... Because of this many of his disciples turned back and no longer went about with him" (John 6:60,66). Of course not everyone pushed away from the table. Jesus turned to the twelve and asked them if they wished to leave also. Peter answered: "Lord, to whom can we go? You have the words of eternal life" (John 6:68).
 
Do you find the words and teachings of Jesus hard to swallow at times? You are in good company. Many have found the cross-bearing road of discipleship a difficult one to travel; but do not let that not deter you from following Jesus; do not let these "hard sayings" cause you to push away from the Lord's table of grace. Jesus' words are true - here is a meal where Jesus promises to abide in us, feeding us with the bread that leads to eternal life. Here is a meal where we can take our time chewing on Jesus' teachings, digesting Jesus' love, savoring Jesus' grace, tasting Jesus' forgiveness, and feeding on Jesus' mercy. Come taste and see that the Lord our God is good.
 
Lord, help me so to eat and drink the body and blood of Jesus that I might digest your truth and savor the goodness of your eternal life dwelling within me. Amen.
Monday Meditation 
is a weekly email ministry of Reconciliation United Methodist Church written by Pastor Kevin Baker.


 

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Bible Study Week 2 - Freedom and Death of the Disciplines

Celebration of Discipline Bible Study
Prepared by: Rev. Willetta Ar-Rahmaan
Week 2 Freedom and Death of the Disciplines

Last week lesson we discussed the understanding and meaning of spiritual discipline. We briefly touched on the freedom of the disciplines because of the liberation. As we live with these freedoms we should not make them law binding and legalistic disciplines. We are a people who live by grace because of the freedom of the disciplines. The freedom of the discipline places us in the presence of God where God can transform us inwardly. “When we despair of gaining inner transformation through human powers of will and determination we are open to a wonderful new realization: inner righteousness is a gift from God to be graciously received” (p. 6).

What does Foster means about righteous is a gift? The word righteousness according to Webster dictionary is “acting in accord with divine or moral law : free from guilt or sin”. “Righteousness is fulfillment of the expectations in any relationship, whether with God or other people. It is applicable at all levels of society, and is relevant in every area of life. Therefore, righteousness denotes the fulfilled expectations in relationships between man and wife, parents and children, fellow citizens, employer and employee, merchant and customers, ruler and citizens, and God and man”. As we fulfill the expectation that will free us from guilt or sin we are open to receive this gift from God. Romans 5:17 states, If, because of the one man’s trespass, death exercised dominion through that one, much more surely will those who receive the abundance of grace and the free gift of righteousness exercise dominion in life through the one man, Jesus Christ (NRSV). Since we are not able to earn righteousness therefore we must be believers in Jesus Christ in order to receive the gift. As we use these disciplines, God is able to transform us in ways we never thought possible. Transformation of the heart and mind is needed as we walk this Christian journey. When we allow this transformation to happen we are allowing the disciplines to guide our spiritual lives and put us on the path of “disciplined grace”.

Foster defines “disciplined grace” as something for us to do (p. 8). In order for us reach the path of disciplined grace we must be active in the practice of the disciplines. When we are active we will be challenged to move off the narrow path because of the obstacles, road blocks and difficulties. This is what the enemy throws at us to make us stumble and fall down. As the disciplines become ingrained in us we will notice the transformation in our attitudes, our hearts, our speech and our personality. However, we must use these disciplines for our growth.

The disciplines were not created for us to make them into laws and hold people’s feet to the fire to make them obey them. This was the issue that Jesus spoke of when he talked to the disciples about the righteousness of the scribes and the Pharisees (Matthew 5:20, For I tell you, unless your righteousness exceeds that of the scribes and Pharisees, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven (NRSV)). As we read through this pericope we notice how the scribes and Pharisees have placed an external burden on the people who are seeking a relationship with God. “Their righteousness consisted in control over externals, often including the manipulation of others. The extent to which we have gone beyond the righteousness of the scribes and the Pharisees is seen in how much our lives demonstrate the internal work of God upon the heart” (p. 9). When the disciplines that are for internal use are manipulated for external use and measurement, we find ourselves not able to fulfill the expectation of carrying out such a task. When this happens we find ourselves in the grips of spiritual death because of our inability to uphold the legalism of the external disciplines. As we reflect on the Israelites and the Law of Moses we realize no matter what happened, they broke the law daily. This is why righteousness is a gift from God. If we had to sacrifice animals for our sins there would not be enough lambs, goats, doves or pigeon to redeem us. Our redemption, salvation and change start on the inside and will manifest outwardly because we have allowed the disciplines to take root, nourish and nurture us inwardly. During the week, let us focus on the following scripture regarding freedom and death as it relates to the spiritual disciplines.

Righteousness (Psalms. 119:137-38, 144; Isaiah. 24:16, Palms. 45:4, 7; 72:1-7, Ezekiel 18:5-9, Genesis. 6:9; cf. 2 Peter. 2:5).

Jesus sought ‘sinners,’ not ‘the righteous’ of the day (Mark 2:17). Not the Pharisee but the tax collector went home ‘vindicated’ (Luke 18:14). Jesus called for righteousness (Matthew. 5:20) but also spoke of it, like the Kingdom, as God’s gift (Matthew. 5:6; 6:33).

The Law as death (Matthew 23:4, 2 Corinthians 3:6, Matthew 11:28-30, Luke 11:46. Acts 15:5, 10, 28. Galatians 6:13. Revelations 2:24, 25.


Questions to Ponder:

1. If a strong person encourages and a weak person control, how do you see yourself and how does others see you?
2. Is it possible to prevent moral bankruptcy? Why or Why not?
3. What are some things you haven’t let go in order to grow spiritual?

Monday, June 7, 2010

Cultivating Gratitude

Reconciliation United Methodist Church June 7, 2010


a Monday Meditation by Pastor Baker
Cultivating Gratitude

Read Ephesians 5:15-20


Biblically speaking, "giving thanks" is the primary speech of humanity. God's Word reminds believers that when we say "thank you," we become more fully human and we enter more deeply into divinity. Gratitude is key to the spiritual life. Without it we cannot grow in the grace and knowledge of God. Without it we are diminished as people and we live a diminished life in the world. Gratitude is essential to a life of joy, a life of compassion, a life of fulfillment. Deep down, most of us already know this. Most of us are aware that the ability to express thanksgiving is part and parcel of what it means to be Christian. But gratitude does not come naturally. It must be cultivated.

Worship is the place where this posture of gratitude is cultivated most explicitly. It is where Christians are reminded that all our expressions of thanksgiving are really answering speech, responses to what God has already done in us, for us, and through us. It is not a coincidence that when followers of Jesus gather around the Lord's Table, they gather to pray "The Great Thanksgiving" - a prayer that expresses gratitude for all of God's mighty acts in salvation history.

The writer of Ephesians expresses this biblical truth clearly, reminding us to cultivate gratitude in our worship and exhorting us to do so regardless of our present situation or current life's circumstances: "be filled with the Spirit, as you sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs among yourselves, giving thanks to God the Father at all times and for everything in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ"(Eph. 5:19). The alternative is to give oneself over to a spirit of cynicism and ingratitude, which when left unchecked, does more than diminish one's joy and contentment - it erects obstacles to our relationship with the God.

God Almighty, giver of all good things, help me to count my blessings each day and give thanks to you at all times for everything. Amen.

Monday Meditation is a weekly email ministry of Reconciliation United Methodist Church written by Pastor Kevin Baker.

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Bible Study Week 1 - Spiritual Discipline

Celebration of Discipline Bible Study
Prepared by: Rev. Willetta Ar-Rahmaan
Spiritual Discipline Lesson

Over the next year we will deepen our relationship with God through the disciplines Richard Foster outlined in his book, Celebration of Discipline. Today’s lesson will be on the meaning and understanding of Spiritual Discipline. Let us take a look at the word discipline. The word discipline has several meanings. At first thought upon hearing the word discipline we think about punishment or correction for something we have done wrong. Another thought would be the choice we had to make in college when selecting a discipline within our major for our degree. Another meaning found in Merriam-Webster Dictionary is the training that corrects, molds, or perfects the mental faculties or moral character. The last definition is the definition of discipline we want to discuss in this weeks lesson. As followers in Jesus Christ we ought to grow in our faith. Our growth in Christianity does not end when we accept Christ.

Our acceptance is the beginning of a lifetime process. The process is one that will train, mold and shape us into the spiritual image of God. This process is not easy but it is necessary for our growth (1 Timothy 4:7, Hebrews 12:11). As we discipline ourselves we are more able to accept the discipline of God and discipline our children in the same way (Job 5:17, Ephesians 6:4, 2 Timothy 2:24-25). When we are in acceptance of God’s discipline we are obedient to the Holy Spirit. Obedience to discipline is not chastisement it is the building of boundaries in our life to stay focus on God daily. Now that you have a basic concept of Spiritual discipline let us turn to Foster’s book and examine his definition of spiritual discipline and the importance of it on this Christian Journey.

According to Foster, Spiritual Discipline is a door to liberation because it moves us from the stifling slavery to self-interest and fear (pp 1-2). The spiritual discipline is for every human being. It helps us to understand ourselves as one created in the image of God. “The classical Disciplines of the spiritual life call us to move beyond surface living into the depths. They invite us to explore the inner caverns of the spiritual realm” (p. 1). We do not have to be in the upper echelon of the spiritual realm when it comes to Spiritual Discipline, we need to be at the place where we can receive the knowledge from God as we start our quest of discipline.

Our quest is one of deepness. It is not a quest of shallow and surface discipline. This quest for a deeper knowledge and understanding of God produces a freedom only some people can explain. The deeper we go in God the deeper we are able to reach and see the manifestation of God because of our faith and hope. So when we are liberated in the spirit we find ourselves singing (Psalms 105:43, Acts 16:25-26, Ephesians 5:18-19, Revelation 4:9-10); dancing (Exodus 15:20, 1 Samuel 18:6, Psalm 149:3); shouting/praising (2 Chronicles 15:14-15, Luke 4:40-41, Luke 17:12-15, Acts 3:7-9). You are probably are saying, Rev I’m liberated but I don’t express myself outwardly that way. I’m saying that’s fine too, however, when the spirit moves in us after we have been in deep communion with God using the spiritual disciplines we may not want to stop praising God. When we become new Christians or rededicate our life back to God we are not sure how we are suppose to approach the disciplines. Often we rely on others to help and guide us during this Christian Journey.

Therefore, the more we read our Bibles we notice the lack of instructions regarding the spiritual disciplines because the people were so ingrained in the discipline it wasn’t necessary to explain. While researching this week’s lesson perform a Bible wordsearch for the following: meditation, fasting, prayer, worship and celebration. Take note of any instructions given and then add comments to this week’s blog. Also feel free to add questions about the lesson and the reading of the first chapter.

Questions to ponder:
1. Why is it harder for us to practice the disciplines of fasting, prayer, worship and celebration?
2. What are some ingrained habits that are so natural to you that you must use mind control or willpower to control them?
3. Have our willpower turned us into Will worshippers?

Reading for Next Week: Pages 6-11

Make the Most of your time

Reconciliation United Methodist Church
May 31, 2010a Monday Meditation by Pastor Baker
Make the most of your Time
Read Ephesians 5:15-20

 

In an old comic movie, students were touring a scientific research lab. Throughout the tour there was a man in a padded cell screaming at the top of his lungs as if he were in extreme pain. After the intermittent and disturbing screams continued for some time, one student finally asked: "What on earth are you doing to that poor man?"

The professor said: "Oh, him. Well he is a clock watcher. We are experimenting with time deprivation. We are trying to see how long he can go without looking at a clock." The student looked through the window at the tortured form huddled in a fetal position against the wall. As the students were leaving, it became strangely silent.

The camera zooms to the bare wrist of one of the students that no longer has his wrist watch and then cuts to the padded cell where the man sneaks a peak at newly acquired watch. If that scene is funny at all, it is only because it comes so close to the truth. Time is very dear to us. Most of us are prone to hoard it and protect it. It is not given away easily. We are a generation with no time to spare.

To us clock watchers, to those of us who are lost in a sea of busyness, the writer of Ephesians has a strong and powerful word. Stop. Just stop. Make the most of your time for the days are evil. What we need is not to kill time, to fill it up - but to fulfill time, to redeem time.

We are called to not be foolish but to understand what the will of the Lord is. Jesus not only wants our life, our giving, our hearts, and our minds. Jesus also wants our time. To learn to live wisely, to understand the will of the Lord, is to recognize that everything we have is God's - even our time. Lord of all things, including time, help me to live wisely making the most of the time you have given me. Amen.
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